I have, sadly, got to a point in my life which I never wanted to.
That point, is essentially that my only child, my son, will never see me again, until he is 18.
I’ve bent over backwards to try to keep up my contact, but the last time I “got” to see him meant that I paid $348 to not see him…thanks mostly to my ex.
The legal side is beyond a joke: the current demand from my ex is that anyone who I expose him to must be reviewed by Dec’s latest (and I note latest, she switch them out) child psych.
I can not move forward in my life with my ex demanding who I live with (that’s another clause she seeks..she doesn’t like Kel…no supervision), or who I see, and yet that is what she now demands.
She tells my mother, lying, that she wants less to do with me, and yet she demands court orders that will dictate anyone I see until Dec is 18 must be reviewed by the court.. She seeks to demand to dictate my life (who I see) for the next 9 years. That’s BS.
The reality is that I have lost my son due to my ex’s demands as she seeks that the court support her simply disliking Kellie with no come back.
I love Declan, and I want to see him so very much.
But I will make it publicly clear: Michelle Riley (of Melbourne Water) now denies this and given her games I’m willing to give up my son to put an end to this, no matter how much this hurts me.
To Declan, when you are old enough to read this and understand this: I’ve never stopped loving you, and your dad/ daddy always will. But your mother and mine marriage was a joke, apparently, and she never cared much for me.
I’d hope Dec when you are older and read this that we could talk or be close again.